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Two weeks is a long time. Get inspired by that truth. Just 2.

Two weeks is a long time

I argued with a friend recently that I thought two weeks was ample time to make a significant change in your life. They responded it wasn’t and I was naive. I tried to break it down into the potential free hours a person could have and illustrate that two weeks is a long time, more than enough to take you from where you currently are to where you want to be heading. Again, they argued.

You, dear reader, or fair-weather reader, can take this in for a moment. How often have you perceived two weeks as being a long time to wait? Probably not a huge amount unless you’re still south of thirty. But even then if you’re missing someone or something or in anticipation you feel that length of time and how vast it is.

Now take for example a stereotypical or “traditional” work week in the western hemisphere. Yes, salaries alter what that typically means, but for now let’s ignore professions like law, medicine and the film industry and look at the tried and true overly referenced 40 hour work week.

Two weeks is a long time

Viewing a person’s life in this manner, you’ve got your “standard” eight-hour day, with let’s say an hour’s worth of breaks, a commute there and back (which could be of any length), and sleep. If you’re in a relationship or have children you likely have other commitments on top.

Beyond that you have, I’m hoping, a good one or two hours a day you can commit to entering towards your goal or aim. You may need to sacrifice certain things, defer a load of laundry for a little while or not watch the latest episode of whatever show you’re enjoying, but think of how many hours you could possibly apply to getting yourself corrected and starting or completing whatever you need to.

Looking at it with digits

Conservatively that two weeks would amount to 14-28 hours of free time if you’re working daily. If you’re working five days a week, that could be expanded to 46 using two free days per week where the time was re-allocated to whatever you’re trying to do. Add two hours to both of those days and squeeze all you can out of that time and that’s 50 potential hours including your work and commitments you could utilize over a two-week period towards literally anything you desire.

I’ll also imagine that you’ve got a ton of commitments in a professional field. Try to view the challenge to make changes or improvements as a short effort over a fortnight (not to be confused with that relatively successful game, “Fortnite”). The word is literally derived from old English for fourteen nights.

What you can do with a fortnight

Attempt to dedicate fourteen nights to incrementally go towards your goal (yes, that’s vague, but you can insert whatever you want to achieve or do in place of “goal”).

It’s often stated that it takes 21 days to form a habit. I’ve also read some people say that it takes just 15 and variations between that. If it is 21, you’ll have gone through two-thirds, if it’s five you’ll have covered it nearly thrice over.

Make time work for you. It doesn’t slow down and it doesn’t bend according to your hopes that it may, but it can be harnessed. Those two clusters of seven days can easily help you wherever you want to go.

Focus on the fact that you know if you’ve got to wait for something, fourteen days in the modern world (especially with express deliveries) or two weeks is a long time.

Never underestimate the value of compounding and how your efforts towards your goal are vital. Do nothing, nothing changes. Do a little every day and you’ll surprise yourself with the volume of progress you can reach extremely quickly.

Be selfish briefly, focus on your goal. If you manage your time and focus on it you’ll find you have a lot more of it. If you continue the patterns and routines you’re accustomed to. That’s your bind.

Don’t worry, it’s not the end of the world if you don’t allocate the time to achieve your dreams. If you don’t they won’t happen and that’s fine. Isn’t it?

Two weeks is a long time if you make use of it and don’t allow yourself to be dragged down by people’s negative action and negative people.

Two weeks is a long time for anyone that utilizes their minutes

Also, anyone that knows me knows I’m the furthest person from a religious zealot. I’m an atheist who wavers sometimes depending on my mood, emotion and wonder but that’s not the point…

If you are religiosity inclined, consider this. The bible claims the world was created within seven days, six in “reality,” so if all that can be rustled up, allow yourself to be inspired to make some quick changes. In actual fact, two weeks is a long time.

In light of the coronavirus, this can be made more clear than ever. Gear yourself towards progression.

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“Of all lies, art is the least untrue.” Flaubert

*** Like most things online it’s hard to say whether these quotes originate with the person they’re attributed to. Regardless, they’re a tool to hopefully inspire you and so does it matter as much as the point the words convey?

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Epiphanies can linger if you let them

Epiphanies can linger if you let them
Epiphanies can linger if you let them

Epiphanies can linger if you let them. Again, as we all will have and will endure, I suffered a great and sudden loss. A woman I grew up with, a second mother type figure, passed away today. She was a lot younger than anyone should be content with and she wasn’t known to be suffering from any life threatening illness. Until one day she was diagnosed with a developed stage of cancer and within three days (ending today) she was dead.

Now the past few days have hurt. I’m thousands of miles away in another country, I couldn’t go to her side and even if I could she was comatose and so whether she heard me or not would have been debatable. She knew I cared for her and my family loved her but repeating that message would serve me more rather than her. She had more goals, more aspirations, more hopes… But the metaphorical plug was pulled and that was that.

Epiphanies can linger if you let them

As with everyone’s experience, when a death occurs you realize and understand how finite and short life is. A friend of mine texted me back wit,h “It can be” when I stated that. No, it’s not “can,” it is. Immortality is fiction.

We are here for just a blip and yes, it’s what we do with that time that matters, but if you’re me or billions of others, that epiphany exists for a short period around such tragedies.

We then revert back into our routines of behaviour, habit, hope and insane repetition, always hoping for a more rewarding tomorrow but never quite pushing the areas that need that extra shove and stagnating at the hope portion. Until the epiphany repeats itself with another example of our ticking clocks, only to forget them again.

I’m not interested in forgetting this epiphany. I intend to wallow in it. I don’t want to keep reaching that “Ah ha! Oh yes, I forgot” moment, I want to utilize it to force myself into shape and I’m doing so. Now. Today. You can too.

Remember the pain of what you lost and find ways to make the here and now as amazing as they can be. Never withhold telling someone you care for them or love them. One day it will be too late and then you won’t have the opportunity to do so.

You have to continually remind yourself of some epiphanies. Don’t let them fade into the back of your mind. Just stay aware of how finite time is, how progressing and being conscious of controlling yourself is extremely important.

Remember the cliche, which has plenty of truth, “Give people the flowers while they’re still around to smell them.” And carpe diem. Todos los días.

Also, remember the fantastic quote attributed to Sam Harris; “Wisdom is taking your own advice.” That means if you’re always complaining about someone or something, you know what to do.

Action a change. Time is finite.

Death serves as a reminder for you to utilize your time here, not squander it arguing. Use it to propel you to get where you want to go.

As you age you should become calmer in some aspects and more diligent in others. Etch the hands of time into your mind so that you can continually be present.

Yes, epiphanies can linger if you let them but they have to be allowed to linger.

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“Kindness is as important as knowledge.” Megan Smith

*** Like most things online it’s hard to say whether these quotes originate with the person they’re attributed to. Regardless, they’re a tool to hopefully inspire you and so does it matter as much as the point the words convey?

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How to get out of debt without a full-time job and quickly

Getting out of debt can be a daunting task, especially when you don’t have a full-time job. However, it is not impossible. With some planning, creativity, and discipline, you can become debt-free quickly. In this article, we will discuss some effective ways to get out of debt without a full-time job.

Sit down, crunch the numbers and make a plan

The first step to getting out of debt is to know how much debt you have. Sit down and write out all of your debts, including credit cards, loans, and any other outstanding payments. Once you have a clear picture of your debt, you can begin to make a plan to pay it off.

Create a budget and stick to it. Determine how much money you have coming in and going out each month. Look for areas where you can cut back on expenses, such as eating out or subscription services. Use the money you save to pay off your debt.

Be creative

There are many creative ways to make extra money and pay off your debt. Consider selling items you no longer need or use, such as clothes, electronics, or furniture. You can also offer your services as a freelancer or consultant in your area of expertise. Look for odd jobs or gigs that you can do on the side.

Another way to make extra money is by taking advantage of online opportunities. You can sell items on eBay, Amazon, or other online marketplaces. You can also participate in online surveys or sign up for cashback programs.

Reduce your expenses

Reducing your expenses can be an effective way to pay off your debt quickly. Look for ways to cut back on your bills, such as negotiating your cable or phone bill or switching to a cheaper insurance plan. You can also consider downsizing your living space or car to save money on rent or gas.

Consolidate your debt

If you have multiple debts, consolidating them into one payment can make it easier to manage and pay off. You can do this by taking out a personal loan or applying for a balance transfer credit card. Just be sure to read the terms and conditions carefully and make sure you can afford the monthly payments.

Seek help

If you are struggling to make your debt payments, seek help from a credit counselor or financial advisor. They can help you create a debt management plan and negotiate with your creditors to lower your interest rates or monthly payments. They can also offer advice on how to improve your credit score and manage your finances more effectively.

In conclusion, getting out of debt without a full-time job requires discipline, creativity, and a solid plan. By taking the steps outlined in this article, you can reduce your debt and improve your financial situation. Remember, getting out of debt is a journey, not a quick fix. Stay focused, stay motivated, and keep working towards your goal of financial freedom.

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Keyword search times and niches to make content rise to the top – compliant with queries

Keyword Search Times and Niches to Make Content Rise to the Top – Compliant with Queries

In the world of online content creation, the success of a website or blog often depends on its search engine optimization (SEO) strategy. One crucial aspect of SEO is selecting the right keywords that match user queries and optimizing content for those keywords. However, identifying the right keywords and niche requires an in-depth understanding of search behavior, keyword trends, and industry-specific jargon.

In this article, we will explore the importance of keyword search times and niches and how to optimize your content for search queries compliant with the latest search algorithms.

Keyword Search Times: Understanding User Intent

Keyword research is the foundation of SEO. It is crucial to identify the most relevant keywords and phrases that your target audience is using to search for information online. One of the most important aspects of keyword research is understanding user intent.

Search queries can be broadly categorized into three types of user intent: informational, navigational, and transactional. Informational queries are those where the user is seeking information about a specific topic. Navigational queries are those where the user is looking for a specific website or webpage. Transactional queries are those where the user intends to buy a product or service.

The timing of your keyword research is also essential. It is important to stay up-to-date with the latest trends and popular search terms in your industry. Google Trends is a great tool to identify keyword search times and popular queries over time. The tool allows you to see the search volume for specific keywords, identify geographic areas where these keywords are popular, and even compare the popularity of different keywords.

Niche Selection: Understanding Your Target Audience

Selecting the right niche is crucial for creating content that resonates with your target audience. Identifying your target audience is the first step in niche selection. Once you have identified your audience, you can research their interests, pain points, and preferences to determine the niche that best suits their needs.

You can also use keyword research tools to identify popular niche topics and related keywords. Google Keyword Planner, for example, provides insights into the search volume, competition, and cost-per-click for specific keywords.

Compliance with Search Algorithms

Finally, it is essential to ensure that your content is compliant with the latest search algorithms. Google and other search engines use complex algorithms to determine the relevance and quality of web content. To rank high on search engine results pages (SERPs), it is important to optimize your content for these algorithms.

One way to ensure compliance is to create content that is easy to read, well-structured, and engaging. Use subheadings, bullet points, and short paragraphs to make your content scannable and easy to read. Incorporate relevant images and videos to enhance user experience.

Another way to optimize your content for search algorithms is to ensure that your website is mobile-friendly. With more than half of all internet traffic coming from mobile devices, having a mobile-friendly website is essential for SEO.

Conclusion

In conclusion, keyword search times and niche selection are crucial aspects of SEO that can help your content rise to the top of search engine results pages. By understanding user intent, selecting the right niche, and complying with search algorithms, you can create content that resonates with your target audience and ranks high on SERPs.

References:

Moz. (n.d.). Keyword Research. Retrieved March 10, 2023, from https://moz.com/beginners-guide-to-seo/keyword-research

Google Trends. (n.d.). About Trends. Retrieved March 10, 2023, from https://trends.google.com/trends/about

Google Keyword Planner. (n.d.). About Keyword Planner. Retrieved March 10, 2023, from https://trends.google.com/trends/about

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Always listen, don’t wait to speak. Compose your answer by listening.

The Power of Active Listening: How to Build Stronger Connections

Listening is a fundamental social skill that we all struggle with implementing in our daily lives. It may seem easy in theory, but in practice, it can be much more challenging. Instead of actively listening, we often focus on formulating our response when we’re engaged in a conversation. This can lead to frustration, leaving us feeling unheard and unimportant.

If you’re like me, you can probably think of someone who talks over you, corrects your thoughts, and steers the conversation towards their own agenda. For me, it was my ex-partner who always interrupted me, needing to correct my thoughts or concepts without allowing me to fully express myself. It became a source of tension between us, and we often found ourselves in heated arguments. We eventually realized that our communication styles were fundamentally incompatible.

Looking back, I can see that I also struggled with active listening. While I tried to absorb what my ex was saying, I found myself waiting to speak, anticipating my chance to interject my own thoughts. This resulted in a lack of engagement in the conversation and a weakened connection between us.

But the truth is, we can all benefit from practicing active listening. Taking the time to listen to others makes them feel valued and appreciated. It shows that you’re interested in what they have to say and that you value their opinion. It also allows you to gain a better understanding of the person you’re speaking with, which can be invaluable in building strong relationships.

While we can’t always control who we’re speaking with, we can always control our approach. By making a conscious effort to actively listen, we can defuse tension and lead to more positive outcomes. Of course, there may be times when we’re dealing with unreasonable people who may not reciprocate our listening efforts. It’s important to recognize when a conversation is no longer productive and to disengage from it.

Always listen, don’t wait to speak. Compose your answer by truly engaging with the person speaking. It’s a fundamental social skill that can have a significant impact on your personal and professional relationships. By taking the time to listen, you’ll not only make others feel important but also gain valuable insights and build stronger connections. So let’s all make a conscious effort to be better listeners and see the positive impact it can have on our lives.

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The advice I’m about to take

Why Taking Your Own Advice is the Key to Personal Growth and Success

Are you guilty of giving advice to others but not following it yourself? It’s a common trap that many of us fall into, but it’s important to recognize that taking your own advice can lead to personal growth and success. In this article, we’ll explore why it’s essential to follow your own guidance and share some tips on how to make it happen.

Section 1: The Importance of Following Your Own Advice

  • It’s hypocritical to give advice you don’t follow yourself
  • Following your own advice builds authenticity and trustworthiness
  • Taking your own advice can lead to personal growth and success

Section 2: Overcoming Fear and Taking Action

  • Fear can hold you back from taking your own advice
  • Tips on how to overcome fear and take action
  • The benefits of stepping out of your comfort zone

Section 3: Learning from Experience

  • Learning from your own experiences can be a valuable teacher
  • Tips on how to reflect on your experiences and take your own advice
  • The benefits of being open-minded and willing to learn

Section 4: Pursuing Your Passions

  • Pursuing your passions is an essential part of taking your own advice
  • Tips on how to identify and pursue your passions
  • The benefits of living a fulfilling life

Taking your own advice is not always easy, but it’s a necessary step towards personal growth and success. By overcoming fear, learning from experience, and pursuing your passions, you can become the best version of yourself. Don’t just give advice – take it.

I have often found myself in the position of giving advice to friends and family members, even when I myself may not have followed that advice. It’s easy to dispense wisdom from a comfortable position of knowledge, but it takes courage and maturity to admit when you haven’t always followed your own advice.

Recently, I decided to take a step back and evaluate my own life. I realized that while I was giving advice to others, I wasn’t always taking that same advice myself. I was telling others to follow their passions, take risks, and pursue their dreams, but I wasn’t always doing the same. I was holding myself back with excuses, fears, and doubts.

But then something clicked. I realized that if I wanted to truly grow and mature, I needed to start taking my own advice. I needed to step out of my comfort zone and start living the life I always dreamed of. And so, I made the decision to embark on a long European trek with my girlfriend.

Preparing for this trip was not easy. It took months of planning, coordinating, and saving. There were many times when I wanted to give up and stay in my comfort zone, but I kept reminding myself of the advice I had given others. I told myself to take risks, pursue my dreams, and not let fear hold me back.

Growing up is a journey that we all embark on, with twists and turns that often leave us feeling lost and uncertain. As we navigate through life, we come across many people who offer us advice, some of it helpful, while others fall short. It’s easy to dispense advice and tell others what to do, but how often do we follow our own guidance? I like to give advice that I am about to force myself to take, and here’s why.

As a young adult, I thought I knew everything, but as I got older, I realized that I had so much to learn. I became more open-minded and willing to take advice from others. I found that listening to other people’s experiences and learning from their mistakes helped me to avoid making the same errors in my life. The one thing that stood out for me was the fact that people often gave advice that they didn’t follow themselves.

I don’t want to be that person.

That’s why I have made it my mission to only offer advice that I am willing to take myself. It’s easy to tell someone to do something, but when you don’t follow the same advice, it can come across as hypocritical. For instance, I have always told my friends to follow their dreams, but I was stuck in a job that I didn’t enjoy. I was scared to take the leap and pursue my passions.

Then, I realized that I wasn’t following my own advice. I decided to take a chance and pursue my writing and art full time. It wasn’t easy, but it was the best decision I have ever made. I found that when I followed my own advice, I became more confident and fulfilled.

Going on this European trek with my girlfriend was another one of those situations where I had to follow my own advice. I have always encouraged people to travel and experience different cultures, but I had never taken an extended trip like this. It was scary to leave my comfort zone, but I knew that it was something that I needed to do. It’s been an incredible experience, and I’m so glad that I forced myself to take my own advice.

Success is the result of your efforts, and that’s something that I believe in strongly. I have seen firsthand how following my own advice has led to success in my life. When you take control of your life and make decisions based on what you truly believe, you can achieve great things. It’s not easy, and it takes a lot of hard work and dedication, but it’s worth it.

If you want to give advice, make sure that you are willing to take it yourself. It’s easy to tell someone else what to do, but it’s much harder to follow your own advice. However, when you do, you become a more authentic and trustworthy person. You also give yourself the chance to grow and learn from your experiences. Life is a journey, and we are all figuring it out as we go. But by being honest with ourselves and taking our own advice, we can navigate through the ups and downs and come out stronger on the other side.

As I sit here now, writing this article from a small cafe in a foreign city, I realize how much I’ve grown and matured in just a short time. I’ve learned that taking risks and pursuing your dreams is not always easy, but it’s always worth it. I’ve learned that success is the result of your efforts, and that it’s never too late to start pursuing your passions.

But most importantly, I’ve learned that giving advice is easy, but taking your own advice is hard. It takes courage, maturity, and a willingness to step out of your comfort zone. It’s easy to give advice, but it’s much harder to follow it.

So, to all the people out there struggling to find their way, I want to say this: take risks, pursue your dreams, and don’t let fear hold you back. And most importantly, don’t just give advice – take it. It’s only by taking our own advice that we can truly grow and mature, and become the best versions of ourselves.

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New experiences every day make life interesting

New experiences every day

In a world that’s constantly changing, it’s easy to fall into the trap of routine and familiarity. We get comfortable with what we know, and sometimes forget that new experiences are a key part of mental health stimulation. But the truth is, new experiences don’t have to be dramatic or mindblowing in scale to have a positive impact on our lives. They just have to be something new to us.

It’s easy to feel stuck in our own little worlds, especially during the coronavirus pandemic when travel limitations have forced us to stay close to home. But there are infinite new experiences and discoveries waiting for us on the internet, from videos to artworks, interactions, and information. All we have to do is allow ourselves to see them as such.

And even within the confines of our own homes, we can still find new experiences. We can try a new recipe, listen to a new podcast, or watch a documentary on a topic we know nothing about. We can explore a different part of our city, or even just visit a shop we’ve never been to before. These small experiences might seem insignificant, but they can become highlights of our days if we allow ourselves to see them that way.

One of the best things about new experiences is that they can help us break out of our routines and open our minds to new possibilities. They can help us see things from different perspectives and give us a renewed sense of curiosity and wonder. They can even inspire us to take bigger risks and try new things that we might have been too scared to try before.

Of course, not every new experience is going to be a positive one. We might try something new and not enjoy it, or we might make a mistake and feel embarrassed. But that’s all part of the process. Every new experience is an opportunity to learn and grow, even if it doesn’t turn out the way we wanted it to.

So, how can we make sure we’re incorporating new experiences into our lives on a regular basis? The key is to start small. Instead of trying to make drastic changes all at once, we can focus on doing something small and new every day. It could be as simple as learning a new word in a foreign language, or trying a new food. We can also challenge ourselves to try a new activity or hobby every week, or to explore a different part of our city every month.

The most important thing is to give ourselves permission to try new things, even if they seem scary or unfamiliar at first. It’s okay to feel nervous or uncertain, but we shouldn’t let those feelings hold us back. With each new experience, we can build our confidence and our sense of adventure, and discover new parts of ourselves that we never knew existed.

New experiences every day are the key to staying interested, engaged, and fulfilled in life. They help us break out of our routines, open our minds to new possibilities, and give us a renewed sense of curiosity and wonder. So, let’s make a commitment to ourselves to try something new every day, and see where it takes us. Who knows what amazing things we might discover?

New experiences every day are the key to staying interested

By actively seeking out new experiences every day, we open ourselves up to the world around us and all of the possibilities it holds. We can find joy in the small things and discover hidden gems that we never knew existed.

Not only does this have the potential to improve our mental health, but it can also lead to personal growth and development. When we push ourselves outside of our comfort zones and try new things, we learn about ourselves and what we’re capable of. We gain confidence and a sense of accomplishment, which can translate into other areas of our lives.

But it’s important to remember that new experiences don’t have to be expensive or time-consuming. They can be as simple as trying a new food or taking a different route to work. It’s about breaking out of our routines and trying something new, no matter how small.

In fact, incorporating new experiences into our daily lives can even help us appreciate the familiar things more. When we take the time to explore our surroundings and try new things, we start to see the world in a different light. We become more mindful and present in our daily lives, and we begin to appreciate the beauty in the world around us.

So, how can we incorporate new experiences into our daily lives? It starts with being open to trying new things and actively seeking out opportunities for growth and exploration. It can be helpful to make a list of things we’ve always wanted to try or places we’ve always wanted to visit, and then make a plan to start checking them off.

We can also challenge ourselves to step outside of our comfort zones by trying things we may have previously been hesitant to do. This can be scary, but it’s important to remember that growth and change often require discomfort and vulnerability.

Finally, we can make a conscious effort to appreciate the new experiences we have each day, no matter how small. By finding joy in the little things and being present in the moment, we can cultivate a sense of gratitude and fulfillment in our daily lives.

In conclusion, incorporating new experiences into our daily lives is crucial for our mental health and personal growth. It allows us to break out of our routines, explore the world around us, and discover new things about ourselves. So, let’s make a commitment to trying something new every day, no matter how small, and see where it takes us. Who knows what hidden gems we’ll discover along the way?

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Why as an artist you should be applying for arts grants

Why as an artist you should be applying for arts grants

Why as an artist you should be applying for arts grants? In any country that has them this is something that more artists than I can count either decide that they can go without or they solely aren’t aware of it. Either that, or they simply believe it’s a mind-bending prospect to write a simple proposal. It’s not.

Why you should be applying for arts grants

1. The world functions around the exchange of money for goods and services and while the idea of being a starving artist may seem romantic from the outside, being one and enjoying that journey you’ll soon find isn’t. A roof over your head and food in your stomach matter. It’s not that complicated of a concept.

2. Governments globally understand the healing power of art and the need for a society to expand their minds/escape. They offer these grants as part of their budgets, so why not throw in your hat?

3. A proposal isn’t as hard as it seems and if it doesn’t end up paying out to you, what have you lost? Some wasted time arguing with a loved one? A few more episodes to binge watch? It doesn’t take long to give a grant proposal a try.

The problem a lot of younger people assume is that they’ll be denied, this seems to have such an impact the people don’t even try.

What becomes a revelation is when you pass a certain age and these grants are no longer applicable, a situation I’ve now encountered. I’m a tad regretful of this, but I accept it. I kept warning myself of the constraints of time, but didn’t actually take heed of my own warnings and the years passed with distractions of different forms, as you’d expect, and I just didn’t. However, there are many available to me. Many which I shall apply for. My advice is that you should be applying for any and all categories that you qualify for. It’s not hard to see the reasoning behind why as an artist you should be applying for arts grants, it’s obvious.

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“Do what you can, with what you have, where you are.” Theodore Roosevelt

*** Like most things online it’s hard to say whether these quotes originate with the person they’re attributed to. Regardless, they’re a tool to hopefully inspire you and so does it matter as much as the point the words convey?

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Why waste time comparing yourself?

Why waste time comparing yourself?

Comparison is a natural human instinct. We are constantly sizing ourselves up against our peers, our colleagues, our friends, and our family. However, comparing ourselves to others can be a slippery slope that leads to feelings of inadequacy and self-doubt. It is important to remember that we are all on different paths in life, and what may be a success for one person may not be for another.

One of the main problems with comparing ourselves to others is that it is a never-ending cycle. There will always be someone who is doing better than us in some aspect of life. Whether it is their career, their finances, or their relationships, there will always be someone who seems to have it all together. It is easy to get caught up in this comparison game and forget about our own unique journey.

Another issue with comparing ourselves to others is that we often only see the surface level. We see the successes and the achievements, but we don’t see the struggles and the setbacks that led up to them. It’s important to remember that everyone faces challenges in life, and just because someone appears to have it all together doesn’t mean they haven’t had their fair share of difficulties.

Instead of focusing on what others are doing, we should focus on our own journey. We should set our own goals and work towards them at our own pace. We should celebrate our own successes, no matter how small they may seem in comparison to others. We should also recognize our own strengths and weaknesses and work on improving ourselves in a way that feels authentic and true to who we are.

It is also important to surround ourselves with people who lift us up and support us in our journey. We should seek out relationships with people who encourage us to be our best selves and who celebrate our successes with us. We should also learn to let go of relationships that bring us down or make us feel inadequate.

At the end of the day, comparison is the death of joy. It robs us of our ability to appreciate the unique journey that we are on and can lead to feelings of dissatisfaction and unhappiness. Instead of comparing ourselves to others, we should focus on being the best version of ourselves that we can be. We should strive to live our lives in a way that feels true to who we are and brings us joy and fulfillment.

Why waste time comparing yourself?

Remember, you cannot start the next chapter of your life if you keep re-reading the last one. It’s time to let go of comparisons and start writing your own story. You have the power over your mind, and with that power comes great strength. Embrace your journey and the unique path that you are on. You never know where it may lead you.

You are on your own unique journey. The path you are walking is different from anyone else’s, and that’s okay. Comparing yourself to others only serves to hinder your own progress and can prevent you from fully appreciating your own accomplishments.

Instead, focus on what makes you happy and fulfilled. Take time to explore your interests and pursue your passions. Surround yourself with positive and supportive people who lift you up and encourage you to be the best version of yourself.

And when you do find yourself comparing yourself to others, take a step back and remind yourself that their journey is not yours to walk. Celebrate their successes and use them as inspiration for your own journey, but don’t let their achievements diminish your own.

It’s not about being better than anyone else. It’s about being the best version of yourself and living a life that brings you joy and fulfillment. So don’t waste your time comparing yourself to others. Embrace your own journey, and enjoy the unique experiences that life has to offer.

Once you start living life for yourself and stop comparing yourself to others, you’ll find that you are capable of achieving things you never thought possible. You’ll start to discover your true passions and what makes you happy. You’ll have the time and energy to focus on your goals and aspirations without the distraction of other people’s accomplishments.

Success is not just about achieving big goals or material possessions. Success is a feeling of contentment and happiness in your life, and it comes from within. It’s about being grateful for what you have and finding joy in the little things.

So, why waste time comparing yourself to others? Instead, focus on yourself, your own journey, and your own goals. You’ll find that you are capable of achieving great things and living a fulfilling life.

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Which is better? Day drunk or night drunk?

Which is better? Day drunk or night drunk?

Alcohol has been a part of human culture for thousands of years, and it continues to be a popular way to unwind after a long day or celebrate a special occasion. But when it comes to drinking, is there a better time to do it? Is day drunk better than night drunk, or vice versa? The answer, like most things in life, is subjective and depends on the person.

Some people enjoy a buzz during the day, when the sun is shining and the world feels a little more carefree. Day drinking can be a fun and unique experience, especially if you’re with a group of friends or coworkers who are all enjoying themselves. It’s easy to feel like you’re getting away with something by drinking during daylight hours, and the change of pace can be refreshing.

On the other hand, day drunk can also be dangerous. If you’re not careful, it’s easy to lose track of time and drink too much. Day drinking can also be more socially frowned upon, depending on your work or personal commitments. And as mentioned, alcohol is a depressant, so a day drunk can quickly turn sour if you’re not in a good mental state.

Night drinking, on the other hand, is a classic way to let loose and blow off some steam. Whether you’re hitting up a bar with friends or having a few drinks at home, night drinking can be a fun and relaxing way to unwind after a long day. There’s something about the nighttime that makes everything feel a little more exciting, and the prospect of sleeping in the next day can be a huge relief.

Which is better? Day drunk or night drunk?

However, night drinking also has its downsides. If you’re not careful, you can easily drink too much and wake up with a massive hangover. And if you’re out at a bar or club, you have to deal with crowds, loud music, and other people who may be less than sober themselves.

Ultimately, the decision between day drunk and night drunk comes down to personal preference and circumstances. If you have a busy workday ahead of you, day drinking may not be the best idea. On the other hand, if you have the day off and want to enjoy a leisurely afternoon with friends, day drinking could be just the ticket.

Likewise, if you have responsibilities early in the morning, night drinking may not be the best idea. But if you have the luxury of sleeping in and recovering the next day, a night of drinking can be a great way to blow off some steam and have fun.

It’s important to remember that regardless of when you choose to drink, moderation is key. Drinking too much can lead to a range of negative consequences, from hangovers to accidents to long-term health problems. Always be mindful of how much you’re drinking, and never drive or operate heavy machinery while under the influence.

There’s no easy answer to the question of whether day drunk or night drunk is better. It all depends on your personal preferences and circumstances. But no matter when you choose to drink, always do so responsibly and with moderation in mind. Like I rarely do.

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Nobody has the answers and unless we make huge advances in science they never will.

Nobody has the answers and unless we make huge advances in science, they never will.

Let’s get one thing straight. Nobody has the answers and unless we make huge advances in science, they never will. That’s a great starting point for us all to be aware of. It’s easy to get caught up in the notion that someone else has all the answers, especially in this age of information overload. We’re constantly bombarded with advice on how to live our lives, what we should be doing, and how we should be doing it. But the truth is, nobody has it all figured out.

If you’re like me, you identify with the demographic of westerners in their 30s. If not, obviously the same doesn’t apply but hopefully some of this advice will resonate. We’re at a stage in life where we’re supposed to have it all together, or at least that’s what society tells us. We’re supposed to have a good job, a nice house, a loving partner, and maybe even a couple of kids. But the reality is that life is messy, and things rarely go according to plan.

People assume that there’s a predetermined path of how we should live our lives, and that if we don’t, if we falter or veer away from what’s expected, that’s offensive, that’s tragic. It’s not. Life is full of twists and turns, and sometimes the best things come from unexpected places. If you’re feeling lost or uncertain about your path, don’t be too hard on yourself. You’re not alone, and you’re not doing anything wrong.

Most people watch the news, indulge in some form of social media, or watch something that presents the ideal nuclear family-esque life. And while in many ways that looks wonderful, it’s not always what it’s cracked up to be. We all have issues, we all have problems, but we don’t allow the world in to understand that. Depression and pain aren’t sexy. Breakdowns, money worries, etc. hardly inspire the masses. But they are real, and they are unpredictable.

Comparing yourself to others isn’t helpful. Stop it. What you need to do is to stop making comparisons using yourself as some sort of simple metric whereby if you’re not doing as well as a friend or an acquaintance, you’re inferior. You’re not. Your path, your set of choices, your life, all of that matters in its own right. Whether you find your story boring or inspirational is subjective. If people can enjoy music you think is absolute trash, why wouldn’t they necessarily be able to find your life intriguing and or amazing? There’s something you’ve done or will do that no matter how small it may appear, could be monumental. Keep putting yourself out there. Act like Chumbawumba and get up again.

Michael has the answers. He has a million dollars and three kids. Good for Michael. He’s the exception. Now move on. I’ve already told you that nobody has the answers, and unless we make huge advances in science, they never will. So stop ignoring me.

It’s easy to get caught up in the idea that someone else has all the answers, that if we just follow their lead, we’ll be happy and successful. But the reality is that life is messy, and success is subjective. What works for one person may not work for another. And that’s perfectly fine.

It’s important to approach life with compassion and empathy, not just for others but for ourselves as well. We’re all doing the best we can with what we have, and that’s all anyone can ask. So be kind to yourself, and don’t be afraid to ask for help when you need it.

In the end, the most important thing is to be true to yourself. Follow your own path, make your own choices, and

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It’s important to remember that everyone’s journey is unique, and what works for one person may not work for another. It’s okay to take risks, to make mistakes, and to figure things out as you go along. Don’t be afraid to try new things, to explore new paths, and to take chances. After all, the only way to truly find out what works for you is to try different things and see what sticks.

One thing that can help in this process is to focus on your passions and interests. What brings you joy? What gets you excited? What motivates you to get out of bed in the morning? These are the things that should guide your decisions and your actions. Pursue your passions and make them a priority in your life, even if it means going against the grain or taking a less traditional path.

Of course, this isn’t always easy. It can be difficult to know what you want, or to find the courage to pursue it. That’s why it’s important to surround yourself with people who support and encourage you. Seek out mentors, friends, and family members who believe in you and your potential. These are the people who will be there for you when things get tough, and who will help you stay on track when you feel lost or discouraged.

At the same time, it’s important to be kind to yourself. Remember that nobody has all the answers, and that it’s okay to make mistakes. Be patient with yourself, and don’t beat yourself up if things don’t go according to plan. Instead, take it as an opportunity to learn and grow. Use your setbacks as fuel to keep going, and keep reminding yourself of why you started in the first place.

In the end, the most important thing is to stay true to yourself. Don’t let the expectations of others or societal norms dictate your path in life. Only you can decide what’s right for you, and only you can chart your own course. So be brave, be bold, and be yourself. Who knows where your journey will take you? It might just be the most exciting ride of your life.