The help or hinderance evaluation principle
Life is fucking complicated. Anyone above 12 knows that. What most of us don’t take the time to consider with our actions and our decisions is the logical question, “Will it help or hinder what I’m wanting?” This is of course wide ranging and far from straight forward. Sometimes the right decision will spiral into complications, sometimes honesty truly isn’t the best policy and sometimes you have to mitigate in order to get the best possible outcome for you and your future. It’s a necessity to evaluate whether your decisions will help or hinder your goals.
“Respect yourself enough to walk away from anything that no
longer serves you, grows you, or makes you happy.”Robert Tew
*** Like most things online it’s hard to say whether these quotes originate with the person they’re attributed to. Regardless, they’re a tool to hopefully inspire you and so does it matter as much as the point the words convey?